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A quarterly international literary journal

Grocery List for Mom


/ Poetry /

 

We’re out of eggs,


and while I've got you, I'm sorry about that time

I made you cry in the kitchen.

Do you remember? It was after

the doctors found your sister's stage 4

cancer, and your auto-immune disease,

and my father was gone with his mistresses,

and my childhood dog was dead.


That reminds me, we’re out of cat food

and carrots and cheese.

 

You’d asked a simple question,

did I think I ever wanted to be a mother

and I didn’t think about it when I said

that I probably couldn’t bear to watch

a child learning that it would someday die,

that it would have to bury me,

that I had pushed it into this life

knowing full well that it would suffer

and grow and die, and still I wanted it

because I wanted to love something.

 

If you want more milk get that too

while you’re out. I know you like it

in your tea when you’re trying to unwind.

 

I said I couldn’t imagine being

that selfish and when you cried

it really surprised me because

you never cry in front of people.

 

Can you get some more sugar also,

I’ve started to like hot tea at night too.

 

Because I’m not good at it,

and because I don’t know how,

I never told you I was sorry, that really

I was angry at myself for wanting,

sometimes, to die. The truth is,

I was trying to answer the question

of why God would make us this way,

because I used to know the answer

but I’d forgotten what it was.

 

Get a whole chicken too if you want

and I’ll roast it when you get home.

I’ll make it like we made it

when I was a child, but likely

burn it a little, and we’ll pray

before we eat it together

because I know now I would choose

to be your daughter, even knowing what I know,

because I love you and when our slim bodies

are similar sets of bones in the cold dark,

I will love you still and always.

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